Is It Time?
Last week I connected with three of my siblings out on the family farm, nestled on the banks of the Snake River canyon in the Palouse region of Southeastern Washington state. Our mission was to clean out some of the stuff that had accumulated over the decades, hoping to make Mom’s home a little more inviting for anyone who wanted to spend some time in a place gently described by National Geographic as a “Paradise Called the Palouse.”
Mom loved that home, choosing to live there by herself after her husband died in 2016. But in the years that followed, through heartfelt discussions with her eight children, she chose to move into an assisted living facility nearby, in Pullman, WA.
Is it time for you or a loved one to consider a move to assisted living? From personal experience, it can be a challenging and emotional decision. 
Here are a few signs to consider:
Activities of Daily Living: one of the primary indicators is difficulty with daily activities. If your loved one struggles with tasks such as bathing, dressing, eating, or maintaining personal hygiene, it may be time to consider assisted living.
Health Condition: physical health concerns are also significant indicators. Frequent falls, unexplained weight loss, or worsening chronic conditions may suggest that they need more comprehensive care. Assisted living facilities offer regular health monitoring, promoting better overall health.
Mental Health: social isolation is another factor to consider. If your loved one has become withdrawn or lonely, it can lead to depression and other mental health issues. Assisted living communities offer social activities, nurturing connections and engagement, which are vital for mental well-being.
Family Impact: caregiver burnout should not be overlooked. If you or other family members feel overwhelmed and unable to provide adequate care, it might be time to explore assisted living options.
As the four of us finished cleaning up the house, we stopped to see Mom before heading back to Seattle. Her 91st birthday is two weeks out, and she loves her current home, surrounded by a lively senior community and supported by thoughtful caregivers.
Recognizing these signs can help you make informed decisions, ensuring your loved one receives the care and support in a nurturing environment.
Planning for the Long Term
Getting older is a part of life. Preparing for aging and life changes can be easier when your financial plan includes elder care and estate planning. If you are dealing with caregiver decisions or your future plans and want to build a strategy moving forward, let's connect in a complimentary strategy call. I would enjoy helping you create a plan for your future.